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TorbjornS · Veteran Member

How can I intigreat KittenPly whitin a D/s relation?

Saberrah · Senior Member

It's fairly easy. It's really all up to what you and your kitty wants out of everyday. Sir calls me kitty all the time, no matter the time, place or the people around. I also have kitty like tendencies; random cuddling, pawing, biting, etc. Sir also will pet me, scratching under my chin, my back, behind my ears, anywhere really. It's a bunch of little things that pulls the kitty play into a 24/7 aspect.

And, when I'm wanting a real session, I apply my ears and tail, a cute outfit (sometimes). Then Sir will tell me if I'm allowed to talk or only mew, walk or crawl, where to eat and how. And the biggest rule of thumb for us, is that it has to be fun. Kitty play is what you want to make of it. If there's something you especially like, try it out again while "out of kitty mode", and see if that doesn't help to bring the kitty in your pet right back out.

-- Edited by Saberrah on Friday 12th of June 2009 12:31:33 PM

TorbjornS · Veteran Member

I hawe reed a lot more after i posted this tropik. So my picuer starting to be a lot more clear. And isolated wat it's a hawe hard(?) whit kitty-play. Switch on/off mods, if you understand what i meen.

The bigest part of my D/s thougts are serving, obeyens, colar, she siting on the floor, eating from a bowl. Thats wat i caring whit my into Kittenplay.

wingless · Veteran Member

im in a slave/master relationship but i rarely refer to her as a slave, moreso a pet or as my kittie cat. its the same thing just diffrent terms, when i tell her or when shes feeling perticually cat like she wears her ears and tail etc, she generally meows alow anyway. i think at the end of the day its diffrent for everyone, i know there are members of the bdsm community that like to follow this list of rules about how a slave should behave etc but as long as the owner and pet are happy its really up to them how it works

MastersKitten · Senior Member

Master and I don't really have set rules or anything.. We just go day-by-day. As long as we are happy, who cares, right? Of course, Master's happiness comes first, but he loves me and wants me happy, too!

I wear a collar 24/7. I call him Master and he calls me Kitten. I sit as hit feet when appropriate or stay by his side. I do act like a kitten and meow all the time. I wear my ears whenever I can get away with it. Master pets me and he scratches my head when I have been good, or behind my ears.. mm. Master doesn't like me opening doors for myself when he is around and I tend to paw and scratch and meow at them until he can open them for me. I love to play. We have so many toys to chase and paw swat at. I have chew toys for when I'm in a bad mood to take out aggression. I also love to bite Master's hand when I want attention. *snickers*

-- Edited by MastersKitten on Sunday 14th of June 2009 01:21:53 AM

TorbjornS · Veteran Member

MastersKitten wrote:

Master and I don't really have set rules or anything.. We just go day-by-day. As long as we are happy, who cares, right? Of course, Master's happiness comes first, but he loves me and wants me happy, too!

I wear a collar 24/7. I call him Master and he calls me Kitten. I sit as hit feet when appropriate or stay by his side. I do act like a kitten and meow all the time. I wear my ears whenever I can get away with it. Master pets me and he scratches my head when I have been good, or behind my ears.. mm. Master doesn't like me opening doors for myself when he is around and I tend to paw and scratch and meow at them until he can open them for me. I love to play. We have so many toys to chase and paw swat at. I have chew toys for when I'm in a bad mood to take out aggression. I also love to bite Master's hand when I want attention. *snickers*

-- Edited by MastersKitten on Sunday 14th of June 2009 01:21:53 AM

The most inportetn are that al are happy in the relaation they live in.

Thank s for you answor

Temko · Senior Member

it's basicly as the rest have said. "have fun/love/contentment/tities in your relationship".

it doens't matter if it's a session, a specific ritual or a 24/7 type thing.
it took my wife wel over a year to grow into 24/7, with us starting of with hours of talking, and trying and figuring out and whatnot.

you should have seen the list of things we put on the "black" or "grey" or "no way in hell" and "maybe"lists back when we started this one out. everything was on it. from cuffing to gagging to chocking to anal, public anything and everyrthing.

even stuff we both think is about as discusting as it gets (corprofilia for example) is on those 2 lists. slowly we started to try out the grey list. took us a year to work it through. some things went a-ok, other flipped to the black list, some black listed things (like anal) went to the grey list, etc...

it's imposible to jump into a 24/7 D/s relationship, regardless of wheather it's a regular D/s, petplay or whatnot. it takes a lot of time to get to know each other, even though you might have been together for a long time.

other then just trying things out you need to communicate everything. take time, sit down, talk and listen to each other. things that are "no way in hell" quite possibly turn into "okay" down the road as her/your limits and imagination grows.

my advice to her is to talk to you as much as she can, even if she has to stop a session to break protocol/rules for it. you being up to date how she's feeling (MORE SO if you are just starting it and learning on it.)

my adice to ye:
learn her body, her mind, her limits and her likes and dislikes better then she does herself, anticipate 'm and learn to controll and mold them. once you do, she'll be yours for life.

MastersKitten · Senior Member

I agree with Temko. There's no way of safely and sanely rushing into a 24/7 dynamic. It takes a lot of time and a lot of trust building.

LostKitten · Senior Member

So well stated Temko. Such good advice.

I have always believed that the strongest rope binding kitten to Master is communication.