Well, I'm simultaneously intrigued by and terrified of fetish clubs.
Have you ever been to one, and what kind of experiences have you had? Was it positive and overall? What typically goes on? Did you experience undue pressure? Would you feel safe attending alone, or is it best to go in a group? What would you say is the general attending demographic?
There don't seem to be any in North Carolina (I'm checking around), but I'll be in the D.C area for a couple weeks this summer, and I was thinking I could explore there and see what I find.
Never been too one and I don't have the slightest clue how to find one. But if I ever did, I think it'd be very fun to go. And probably get an eye full! *Giggles*
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There was no pressure whatsoever, beyond a loose dress code (ie, no jeans, trainers, etc)
People had their fun (I saw lots of whipping and people walking around stark naked) but there was also music to dance to and a bar. I guess it was a tad surreal, but I really enjoyed myself.
I sorta want to go, lately, but I think I'm too shy to go alone *covers her nose with her paws*
If you're ever out this way (PNW), I'll be glad to take you to a very mellow scene. And totally accepting of every "normal" kink.
While boys/men are discouraged from enter solo, I wouldn't go alone as a kitty though. But on a leash, you could have lots of fun. We'd probably have to sneak your own sushi in for you, but getting your drinks served in a bowl on the floor kind of sets the kitty apart from the crowd. But watch your tail!
Heh. Waaaaaaaaay on the other side of the continent. Though I know a bit about the Seattle scene because there seem to be so many blogs being written from there.
I have a few kinky friends, but just nobody who seems to be in to the whole fetish club scene. But then, I haven't heard terribly great things about our scene anyway.
Well, I'm simultaneously intrigued by and terrified of fetish clubs.
Have you ever been to one, and what kind of experiences have you had? Was it positive and overall? What typically goes on? Did you experience undue pressure? Would you feel safe attending alone, or is it best to go in a group? What would you say is the general attending demographic?
There don't seem to be any in North Carolina (I'm checking around), but I'll be in the D.C area for a couple weeks this summer, and I was thinking I could explore there and see what I find.
Thanks, guys. ^_^ Mew!
Yes many times
I hawe meet al kinde of pepel but very foe drunk pepel ore pepel that not can behave.
I hade never feelt any pressusre but stil I am a man dominant and hawe a good self-confidence and no need to show my up.
For not lie i side I think I never feelt soo safe as in a fetish club. We take care of it chuder her in sweeden.
then wi hawe the alternativ to fetish clubs. Picnics coffe break in a lokal caffe evry veek. (We ar not alone in the caffe lots of non BDSM ther.) Yust to hang ute and hawe a litel chatt and a fow auer of lughe.
I'm also timid of joining fetish groups, any group I have ever attempted to join has scared me half to death. Though I will feel more comfortable naked.
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