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Kohaku · Member

Kitten play without sexual relationship?

tigrenpanthera · Senior Member

i have some friends who found out about my kitty-ness. sometimes they'll treat me a little like a cat--one even made me a collar (see General: pretty collars?) they'll scratch my head or let me play with some spare fabric or yarn...

they're not masters, but they're some of the best friends a little kitty-girl like me could hope for!

Temko · Senior Member

hmmm, wile it's possible i myself get to sexually arroused by my sub/kitten to be platonic. hell, most of the female friends i have have seen me with a hard-on before, they know i am not embarrased by my reaction and accept thats just how i am... but platonic? hell no :S

Matt-Sama · Veteran Member

While I find that it is possible to be completely platonic I find it VERY difficult, because like Temko I'm usually aroused or my artistic side is brought out during such play. However that is very little to do with just the kitten play and lies alot more in my desire for control.

Lower levels such as just having a kitty that follows around and snuggles up with you I guess would make being platonic possible, since it does take a good deal of the sub/dom part out of the relationship.

I will say should I ever have a kitty that is male it is almost garenteed to be completely platonic.

But I guess it depends where you draw the line. Kissing and Bitting, are definately things I like doing, even if sex doesn't come out of it. I'm a very affectionate person. Non-sexual, very likely, but completely platonic. I don't think so because there is an inherent love that builds out of such a relationship.

Like I have for my real cat, I could live without him, love him lots. In the end I think the relationship would always build just due to the nature of the situation.

But this is just one man's opinion.

-Matt