Hi i've been on the site for a while now, but finally getting around to posting now.
As far back as I can remember i've been intrested in slave oriented erotisism; followed shortly there after by BDSM and the likes. While still intrested in the Gor type slavery I've really been tpying with how to get into one of these lifestyles.
According to other people i've always had a feline quality to me and i've always been very fond of felines as well. I'm not so much intrested in pony play, but I've really been likeing this idea, the idea of being a pet and having to listen etc.
I suppose my main concern is how to get my significant other to go for this idea, or rather how to present it to them, any ideas??
I don't have any advice, but I'm just curious how you reconcile Gor...ness and kitteness. From what little I know of Gor (and I could be entirely wrong), it's very much...all women are slaves, you have no choice in the matter, period? Whereas kittens are rather independent creatures, no?
Just curious how you see it all. *sits back to listen*
Welcome! ^-^ Unfortunately, I have no advice to give you as my Mistress and I simply jumped onto the ship, so to speak, together. Just dropping hints I suppose could work. I hope things turn out for you though.
As for advice, I went through this as well when discussing my interest or needs when it comes to slavery, cuckolding and being a kitten. I found a few drinks, lots of cuddles and kisses then lots of honesty usually works.
You could begin by asking your SO what her/his fantasies are. If they're similar to yours you'll have a springboard into the conversation and if they're not you'll still be learning a bit about each other.
You might even find that you like something entirely new while making your SO the happiest person alive at the same time :)
From my experience, everybody's got some more or less suppressed fantasies, and it's always been fun finding out what they are.