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Do your parents know?

Faete · Senior Member

well, as I tend to dress in vinyl, latex, and other delicious fabrics - (as well as take the occaisional walk on the leash in public) they know to a degree. But they don't really know much. They know that I live a different lifestyle than them, and they know that I am a bit kinky. But that's all they know.

To be honest, I don't really want them to know more. They are my parents, and therefore - not people who I want to talk about my sex life with. However, I also do some nude and fetish modelling, as well as some web camming. My parents DO know about that, though I don't share examples with them. And they support me completely. After all, I do not do anything with anyone but Master... With the exception of pictures. Still, Master is always there for safety reasons.

Mynx · Senior Member

I have a feeling my mom knows there's something a little different to my relationship, but I don't think she knows exactly what it is. And I'm not about to ask her what she thinks. xP

Truthfully though, not even my best offline friend knows what kind of lifestyle I live. She knows I'm kinky, but there's really not much I tell her in regards to what happens behind closed doors.

Jynx Darkitten · Senior Member

my mom is clueless thats is a good thing she would kick my ass out of the house (though i would enjoy being out of this hellhole) but my dad knows to some degree ima furry he knows that but he does not know what i like behind closed doors he supports my fandom but i dont think he would think to well of this

kisa · Senior Member

my parents don't know and i don't think i ever want them to know too much. It's not that i'm ashamed of it, it's just that there is a massive age difference ( i'm 19, they're in their early sixties)... it would just be weird. plus, i like to keep my personal life private to a degree.

Crystal · Senior Member

My family tends to be very private. So, No. I doubt they know I've been kissed much less dress up like a kitten for sex games XD

DarkNeko · Veteran Member

Mine honestly don't have much a clue. They think its just that random japanese stuff for the most part. I'd prefer to keep it that way...I sorta feel that what happens behinds closed doors is best kept in private

Tygra · Senior Member

I think I would be disinherited if my parents ever found out.
Besides, like Master says it's nobody else's business but our own.

MissAbsinthe · Senior Member

Oh my parents found out....
Is kinda hard when you go for lunch with your dad and someone walks up to your table and tells you how much they like your fetish videos XD
My poor dad.

Kitten · Senior Member

MissAbsinthe wrote:

Oh my parents found out....
Is kinda hard when you go for lunch with your dad and someone walks up to your table and tells you how much they like your fetish videos XD
My poor dad.

awww bless, what did he say? or was he too shocked to say anything

kitten130 · Veteran Member

Aww poor Miss A. I would have been hiding my face in a menu LOL

My mom kinda knows, as I wore a thin steel ring collar around the house once. She immediatly made me take it off and never wear it again in her house. We haven't spoke about it much since...and I think it should stay that way.

I think she suspects something though with me and my current Master...I do spend the night with him an awful lot to be "hanging out". LOL

Love_Bunny · Veteran Member

Lucky me my father has always been supportive of anything i've ever done. He doesn't see how it can be entertaining, but he understands it makes me happy.

LaLa · Veteran Member

Mrew....*shakes her head sadly*
Mama and gramma don't know. u.u;
I's been tryin' my best to keep things all 'hush hush', but the other day when master came to find me...and give me my very first kitten ears, I recieved the dirtiest of looks from Mummie. (I ended up having to make up an excuse as to why 'daddy'/master had brought me such a..."presumably" random gift. Erm..*scratches her head* "Presumably random" from mummie's point of view. ^^; Ehehe...)

MasterMorhion · Veteran Member

My family has no clue lol. I'm pretty sure if they found out, they wouldn't be able to, nor be willing to understand.

Drakon · Veteran Member

my parents dont know, but my mother i know wouldnt be a problem but my farther is the oposite...

MrsA i hope he was ok with it?

Crystal · Senior Member

What type of moron would interrupt a meal of yours with people that were clearly not your peers to mention anything more than "Hi, I'm a fan."

Chilledice · Senior Member

Crystal wrote:

What type of moron would interrupt a meal of yours with people that were clearly not your peers to mention anything more than "Hi, I'm a fan."

There are some stupid people out there blankstare

I suppose, they might of confused her dad with her master.. But it is a heck of an assumption to make. I honestly feel sorry for Miss. A's lack of privacy though!

Saberrah · Senior Member

Ahh, what a fun topic!
*Sits down and licks her paw while she sorts through her thoughts*
My mum knows.
A few months ago, she and my younger sis moved in while they searched for a new place to live (they'll be out this weekend! *Does a happy dance*).
One day, a few weeks after they invaded my domain, my mum pulled me aside. She looked so concerned! She asked a few questions which I answered in turn, then asked what she was driving at. Turns out, she had went into my room while I was away at work to borrow my brush...Lets just say that she got an eyeful the moment she stepped in past my door *Giggles*.

LaLa · Veteran Member

Saberrah wrote:

Ahh, what a fun topic!
*Sits down and licks her paw while she sorts through her thoughts*
My mum knows.
A few months ago, she and my younger sis moved in while they searched for a new place to live (they'll be out this weekend! *Does a happy dance*).
One day, a few weeks after they invaded my domain, my mum pulled me aside. She looked so concerned! She asked a few questions which I answered in turn, then asked what she was driving at. Turns out, she had went into my room while I was away at work to borrow my brush...Lets just say that she got an eyeful the moment she stepped in past my door *Giggles*.

*Sage nod*
Yousa braaaaaaave kitteh. O_o...

Sui Juris Cattus · Guru

LaLa wrote:

Mrew....*shakes her head sadly*
Mama and gramma don't know. u.u;
I's been tryin' my best to keep things all 'hush hush', but the other day when master came to find me...and give me my very first kitten ears, I recieved the dirtiest of looks from Mummie. (I ended up having to make up an excuse as to why 'daddy'/master had brought me such a..."presumably" random gift. Erm..*scratches her head* "Presumably random" from mummie's point of view. ^^; Ehehe...)

You never said she gave you dirty looks about it. Oy! Thank god you didn't show her the collar.......

LaLa · Veteran Member

Sui Juris Cattus wrote:

LaLa wrote:

Mrew....*shakes her head sadly*
Mama and gramma don't know. u.u;
I's been tryin' my best to keep things all 'hush hush', but the other day when master came to find me...and give me my very first kitten ears, I recieved the dirtiest of looks from Mummie. (I ended up having to make up an excuse as to why 'daddy'/master had brought me such a..."presumably" random gift. Erm..*scratches her head* "Presumably random" from mummie's point of view. ^^; Ehehe...)

You never said she gave you dirty looks about it. Oy! Thank god you didn't show her the collar.......

D: Showing her the collar would've confirmed her suspicions. She merely brushed it off as some cute, little joke gift. *sage nod*

Edit: "it" being the kitten ears. xD

-- Edited by LaLa at 23:51, 2008-07-27

Joli Minou · Senior Member

Oh, man... My grandma's already extremely suspicious and wary of the things I'm doing now that I don't live under her roof anymore. xD

She knows my Sir and I are together and that I've been spending the weekends with him... But today she asked me what I've been spending my money on lately (as I'm in big trouble with the bank >.
I know for a fact that she'd NEVER understand the whole BDSM thing WHATSOEVER, or even attempt to, so I'm not gonna bother. Lol. Ah, generation gaps. *le sigh*

imissmanny · Senior Member

My parents and I are very open with eachother... but I just don't think they'd understand this. My mom's cool, she'd probably research it and support me if I told her.... I mean when I told her I never orgasmed before she did all this research and taught me the best positions and such to get one! lolllll that was interesting. But I want her not to hafta think too much about it. She likes being open with me, but sometimes I think my strange life choices make her sad that I'm not having a 'normal, healthy lifestyle'. She thinks her way is the only way to be happy! I mean you should have seen the **** she gave me when I told her I need to buy thongs and not granny panties.... She's like 'no one needs to wear those but sluts'. Oi.... Good thing I don't live there anymore >_>;

Chilledice · Senior Member

I have a funny story to tell you all about my parents finding out about kitten play however I cannot tell you untill I get back from holiday (next Saturday!) as it involves my kittens anniversary present (which is tomorrow!).. If you are really curious.. PM me, and I might tell you

-- Edited by Chilledice at 17:15, 2008-08-03

Sui Juris Cattus · Guru

Chilledice wrote:
I have a funny story to tell you all about my parents finding out about kitten play however I cannot tell you untill I get back from holiday (next Saturday!) as it involves my kittens anniversary present (which is tomorrow!).. If you are really curious.. PM me, and I might tell you

-- Edited by Chilledice at 17:15, 2008-08-03

Have a great time!!! You'll definately have to tell us the story upon your return!

KittyBoyMuffin · Veteran Member

I'm not actually particularly *in* a lifestyle, I just act kittenish on the internet ... and bondagelicious, too. Sometimes both at once!

Still, nopers, my parents are completely unaware of everything except the "bi" bit ...

DaddysTouch · Veteran Member

My parents don't know per se, in that I've never told them and they've never seen anything that would be concrete proof of anything... but we live (at least for a month and a half more...) in the same house, so they must hear the, ahem, lifestyle!