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LilithPride · Senior Member

RE: mono vs poly

Kitten Morris · Veteran Member

I'm not saying I'm better than others or others are worse than me. I'm saying the act itself is something that was done a long time ago and that it's outdated, sort of taboo in America I guess. You can do it if you like, whatever floats your boat, but it's not something I'll be doing.

LilithPride · Senior Member

It's ok Morris ethics are a confusing part of life. I'm not going to continue this argument because I like you and would prefer not to get into odd debates. All I will say is that monogamy has been around for ages as well and in fact monogamy has more of a history as a business proposition than polygamy. Throughout western history monogamy was long seen as an act beneficial towards both parties in societal gain, same as for the Japanese, Polygamy has always been about the pleasure and desire of being together. Monogamy gained it through poets, watch Fiddler on the Roof the principle character's relationship is common of the traditional monogamous relationship.

Sorry I said we wouldn't debate..... I'm too talkative.... I don't mean to offend you Morris!!!!

It's not your opinion I dislike it's your phraseology

-- Edited by LilithPride on Saturday 11th of July 2009 09:11:45 PM

Anabelle · Senior Member

I'm currently participating in a polyamorous relationship, so far it's been wonderful. I think it works because all three of us are dating each other, not just one person dating two people. All three of us are bisexual, which helps a lot, and everyone helps each other in a variety of ways.

v.v I'm going to miss them though - we'll all be splitting up for college in september - we'll still be dating, but its going to be very difficult, considering I love to touch and be touched as much as possible.