I don't know about you guys, but I'm extremely verbal, and the majority of my D/s kicks come from verbal interchange. Do any of you have any phrases that make your stomach get all fluttery or send you straight into sub/kitty/pet mode? Or dominant mode, for that matter?
"Good girl" and "good kitty" have to be mine. No matter how many times I hear them, I still freak out a little bit inside every time. >.>
I'm pretty verbal too. I'd agree that most of my D/s kicks come from verbal interactions, to the point where I actually feel a bit shy saying what gets to me because it's too powerful. Things like playing with meeces or yarns or whatever are less intimate, I can talk about that, but saying what words really get to me...that's kinda private!
I will say I used to like it when my ex called me "baby" though *blush blush blush* And there are definitely words that are practically trigger words for me, but...I'm not telling all of you what they aaaaaaaaare! Mrowl! :D
any pet names just make my heart start pounding in a good way--sweetie, dear, darling, sweetheart, etc.
even more than that, if my prospective owners can purr, i'm pretty much their lap cat for as long as they want one.
heh, funny story about that... i was at an event for my medieval club this weekend, and there was a guy making snow cones. he saw that i was wearing ears, and gave me a free snow cone when i hugged him! and he purred, which... well... he was a little creepy, perhaps, but well worth it for the free snow cones!
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oh well, i'm not really a person that gets turned on/off by talking, it's the actions of my sub that decide how i feel. if she's being annoying i get annoyed and if she's being playfull i enjoy myself teasing her *grins*.
as for her... well, she likes to hear me whisper what i'm going to do to her and not have controll over me then doing it.
for example i'll whisper in her ear "first, i'm tying your arms up behind you, then i'll spank you until your ass is as red as the walls (and they ARE red :P), etc...
Temko!-scold- We don't all stay dom all the time. Me for instance. I have a very 'submissive' personality in my day to day life, I don't stand up and I avoid confrontation, but I'll never be anything but dominate in the bedroom.
this biggest kick for me though is my pet referencing herself as a pet rather than a person, drives me full tilt into dom mode.
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Temko!-scold- We don't all stay dom all the time. Me for instance. I have a very 'submissive' personality in my day to day life, I don't stand up and I avoid confrontation, but I'll never be anything but dominate in the bedroom.
this biggest kick for me though is my pet referencing herself as a pet rather than a person, drives me full tilt into dom mode.
*Giggles* That sounds just like my master. It goes both ways, though-- I always know he's up to something when he starts a sentence with "Kitty." XD
Temko!-scold- We don't all stay dom all the time. Me for instance. I have a very 'submissive' personality in my day to day life, I don't stand up and I avoid confrontation, but I'll never be anything but dominate in the bedroom.
this biggest kick for me though is my pet referencing herself as a pet rather than a person, drives me full tilt into dom mode.
cant say i do that, i am respectfull to everyone, regardless of what or how. but i am never submissive nor do i allow anyone to act in any way dominant over me.
if my boss tells that i did something wrong, i work to correct it to tell him he's an moron for thinking that.
other then that i cant explain it. i dont enter dom "mode", i am a dom as is. my personally only alters when i have to shut down every aspect in regards to grandma-would-get-a-heart-attack mode ;)
I'm just playing wit ya. Its either that or flirt with yoru (he's just sooooo cute)
I understand the "Grandma-would-have-a-heart-attack" thing. My parents know NOTHING about my personal tastes and my grandma especially will NEVER know.
I have a rather submissive(so to speak, I just dun do confrontation much) personality though when it comes to getting work done when I know what to do its... "Do it"
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I'm just playing wit ya. Its either that or flirt with yoru (he's just sooooo cute)
I understand the "Grandma-would-have-a-heart-attack" thing. My parents know NOTHING about my personal tastes and my grandma especially will NEVER know.
I have a rather submissive(so to speak, I just dun do confrontation much) personality though when it comes to getting work done when I know what to do its... "Do it"
Lol a bit random but tyvm ^_^
As for "Grandma-would-have-a-heart-attack," I got caught by my brother doing a cam show a few days go I was in full cat gear and tied myself up. It was very, very, very awkward. He said he would knock next time XD. I'm just glad it wasn't my mom, shes the type that thinks kinks are a sign that something is wrong.
Back on topic, I just love being called by a pet name or spoken to like a pet or girl.
-- Edited by Yoru169 on Thursday 28th of May 2009 10:23:33 PM
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I like hearing "Good kitty" or "Good girl." But it's not just the words, it's the way Papa says it with a whisper, like a puff of cool summer air. *purrs*
Anything along the terms of "Mine" tends to make me happy. x3 I'm not a possessive person (maybe a somewhat protective person though); but I do like it when I hear "No, she's mine." Or something along those lines. :3