as well as being my kitten shes also my slave and im her owner, ive been involved in the lifestyle for a tad longer than ive been into kitten play and most my relationships have been dom-sub or dom-slave, i was just wondering if it was the same for most people or if there are some that just have normal or switch relationships? just curious is all :)
I have a master and I am his slave and his kitten. We've been together in a relationship for 3 years, I've been collared as his slave for 2 years and have been his kitten for roughly a year. I probably would've been his kitten a lot earlier, but I didn't realize this kind of play existed and didn't want him to think I was weird, even though I always meowed, pawed and purred at him. He nurtured my inner kitten until I felt comfortable enough to let it out and be his kitten.
I guess I is a stray? But my ex is still taking very good care of me and long-distance-petting me and long-distance-cuddling me and long-distance-tucking-me-in-at-night.
And she considers herself her own, independent kitty, but I am still trying to be good to her, too.
When we were together, we were switchy, with the person on the bottom being...I guess...a very loosely-dominated sub. The top would only really invoke her powers in extreme cases and generally the kitten was usually too spoiled to do much obeying (which is how I like it. BDSM is a game to me. A very fun game that I like to play very, very often, for hours at a time, but always and forever a game).
the relatioship i'm in right now... isn't really up to the kitten play thing. it's not really even a relationship. it's "if i have the opportunity, let's screw." but if i ask, he'll treat me a little bit more like a kitty girl. so... like i say, i'm more the affectionate stray.
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High Priestess of Bast in the new race of the Sphynx