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Puppyslinger · Newbie

Where does one start 0.o

Yoru169 · Senior Member

Welcome ^_^
A few pet things I would recommend that aren't so much about domination are petting, sitting in your lap, hand feeding, dressing up, and calling by a pet name.

Sui Juris Cattus · Guru

You might also try taking your pet to the "toy store" (i.e. the local pet shop) and let them pick out some things to play with.

Puppyslinger · Newbie

Next question is She was wondering if there was some set guideline(rules) for this shes used to the "bdsm slave" rules but they don't generally apply here or do any apply here?

Yoru169 · Senior Member

It really depends on the couple. Some like to be whipped and obedient, some like to be playful, and some like a mix of both. If you still want some BDSM I would recommend using the same rules as usual and tweak them as you go or get rid of the ones you decide you dont like. Or on the opposite side of the spectrum, start off with no rules and add them as you go until you like where you are.

Bestia Vinco · Senior Member

welcome

MastersKitten · Senior Member

I agree with Yoru on a lot of this. Master and I started out with the petting and sitting in his lap and gradually moved on as we felt comfortable. We do have a lot of the M/s bdsm side in our relationship with rules and protocols. We started out with a simple list and changed them as we needed. We've been together 3 years and I have been his Kitten for 2 years and we are both very happy.

Welcome to the forum and I hope everything works out for you! ^-^

Puppyslinger · Newbie

Well several days later she has decided she wants as close to 24-7 as logical And has been eating 24-7 from her kitten bowls as well as decided to use a litter box so in the end thus far all seems well Ill have to have her get an account and say hello Thanks for the welcome and hope to get to know you all better =)

MastersKitten · Senior Member

Glad to hear everything is working out for you!

Temko · Senior Member

like any relationship you need to grow into it. i'll use myself as an example.

me and my wife have been together since highschool (i'm in my 20's :P) and know each other pretty well, even so it took us a good time to grow into her being my pet.

several things played a major role into this.
i've always been a dom but never an owner, so my usual aproach needed to change to support her kitten-side. and on the other end she was never submissive to anyone, let alone a guy (some people should be shot on sight what they do to others btw, no more info on that from me) so it took her a long time to fully grow into being a kitten and accept my dominance over her. even when she was the one that initiated the kittenplay.

so we started slow with simple things like basic comands, cuddling, walking on all 4, leashing, collaring, mewing and being forbidden from talking, spankings if she didn't follow orders properly, more inventive punishments, anal plugs....etc...etc..

it took us 3 years of slowly expanding boundries and looking up things and learning what we enjoy and dont and we will continue to grow in our way. i'm taking shibari lessons to tie her up better, she's working on strengthing her body etc...

so all i can tell you is talk, try and experiment. find out what you want, dont want and dont be afraid to go over covered ground.

my wife began utterly against the idea of anal and currently she wants it more often then i do :P