Er, hello everyone... You'll have to pardon me if other than this I'm really just a lurker here...I have definite trust issues with people I've never met when on the internet... [takes a breath] Well, I guess I should introduce myself...that's what this is for, right? I'm a male domesticated cat who enjoys the outdoors, but doesn't enjoy large crowds, and I'm currently trying to ease into the process of trying to find a female owner in my area. I'm very timid, and likely to raise my guard before anything else, and if anyone here is looking for an online relationship with me...I have to be frank, but you'll probably be disappointed. Also, to clarify on sexuality: I am straight, and I don't really care too much one way or the other in a pet relationship whether or not there is sex. Honestly, I value pet affection much more than I do sex. Just figured I'd get that out in the open. I'm not new to the feeling of enjoying being a pet, but I am new to the community, so I joined here to try to get ideas for easing into it. I'm sorry if I seem standoffish, but it tends to take a lot for me to trust people even in real life. Sorry for such a long intro >_< I'm kind of new to this...blargh...
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Saturday 14th of March 2009 03:24:12 PM
I just realized that I may have been unclear about one thing. When I said that I have a hard time trusting people over the internet, this was true, but I don't mind some communication...basically, I will probably enjoy discussing some things here, but I am definitely not looking for an internet owner. I'm open to some of the discussions here, however. Sorry if I put anyone off by that possible miscommunication. >_<
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Saturday 14th of March 2009 06:44:05 PM
i understand trusting people on the internet is hard. To be looking for a relationship online (i am, but i don't have many options) it is harder. You just need to get proof that someone is who they say, phone (it isn' the best but) and cam are usually the way i get the proof that they are in fact who they say they are. Sorry just kinda going on i guess. i just treat people as what they say they are is true until proven otherwise (just talking about general communication). Of course the internet for me is a place to stop hiding and be myself.
Thank you all for being so welcoming ^_^ I hope that I can find things here that will help me find a suitable owner in my area...>_> I recently had to leave college, so I no longer have the female friends there helping to fill the role of my owner by giving me pets and the occasional cuddle...I'm getting lonely...XD