i think maybe there might be more females (or people who identify best as a female, like angelbelle) because cats are seen as slightly more feminine and graceful. however, i can also see male (or people who identify best as male) kitties, because they're strong and playful!
i think it's very interesting to look into the way people think about it... =)
ps. angelbelle--best of luck with everything! :)
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High Priestess of Bast in the new race of the Sphynx
Male kitty here. I can safely say that short of this forum I've met all of three other male kitties in ANY other setting, real life, internet, etc.
I think a lot of it has to do with the ol' "dog is man's best friend" thing, emphasis on the man part. I've met quite a few male puppies, moreso than female puppies. Men identify with dogs more, broadly, or at least its perceived as more acceptable.
I mew in my sleep. I was screwed from the get go. :P
I'm a guy kitty. Thought I'd bring this up. I also think I may have posted on the gender difference at one point, but I was moe concerned with female owners.
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I am obviously not a cat myself, but I do adore teh kittehs.
And yesterday I had a meeting with the most wonderful male cat. I have to admit, I was sort of unsure about the concept earlier - a stereotypical cat for me has always been a tiny, helpless kitten, in need of warmth, love and grooming. But this meeting completely changed (or to be more exact - gave) me an understanding of the male kitten dynamics. And I have to say I love it and from this day on male kittens are welcome as well. One day I will be living in a house with a big fireplace and all visiting kittens can all curl up on the rug in front of it and stretch and sleep and purr as much as they wish.
Oh yes - this particular cat also possessed martial arts powers. Teh awesome!
I am obviously not a cat myself, but I do adore teh kittehs.
And yesterday I had a meeting with the most wonderful male cat. I have to admit, I was sort of unsure about the concept earlier - a stereotypical cat for me has always been a tiny, helpless kitten, in need of warmth, love and grooming. But this meeting completely changed (or to be more exact - gave) me an understanding of the male kitten dynamics. And I have to say I love it and from this day on male kittens are welcome as well. One day I will be living in a house with a big fireplace and all visiting kittens can all curl up on the rug in front of it and stretch and sleep and purr as much as they wish.
Oh yes - this particular cat also possessed martial arts powers. Teh awesome!
Aw, I'm so happy you had such a wonderful experience and hopefully that day will come very soon! ^.^
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[raises a tentative paw] I'm a male kitten! Albeit a very timid and shy one...as I mentioned in my introduction in the litter box, I find it too hard to trust people I've never met in person to form a petlike bond with them, but I've gotten to where I don't mind talking a bit on forums ^_^
[raises a tentative paw] I'm a male kitten! Albeit a very timid and shy one...as I mentioned in my introduction in the litter box, I find it too hard to trust people I've never met in person to form a petlike bond with them, but I've gotten to where I don't mind talking a bit on forums ^_^
Good for you! I'm so happy that you could feel safe enough here to at least talk with us. ^^ One step at a time, right? <3
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"No cat out of its first fur was ever deceived by appearances, unlike human beings, who seem to enjoy it."
[raises a tentative paw] I'm a male kitten! Albeit a very timid and shy one...as I mentioned in my introduction in the litter box, I find it too hard to trust people I've never met in person to form a petlike bond with them, but I've gotten to where I don't mind talking a bit on forums ^_^
Good for you! I'm so happy that you could feel safe enough here to at least talk with us. ^^ One step at a time, right? <3
[blushes, nervously cleaning a paw]
Thanks...this forum has me so flustered, though >_<
[raises a tentative paw] I'm a male kitten! Albeit a very timid and shy one...as I mentioned in my introduction in the litter box, I find it too hard to trust people I've never met in person to form a petlike bond with them, but I've gotten to where I don't mind talking a bit on forums ^_^
Good for you! I'm so happy that you could feel safe enough here to at least talk with us. ^^ One step at a time, right? <3
[blushes, nervously cleaning a paw]
Thanks...this forum has me so flustered, though >_<
I hope I can find a good owner (IRL) soon...<_<
Aw, flustered how?
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"No cat out of its first fur was ever deceived by appearances, unlike human beings, who seem to enjoy it."
I've just never really been in an online community like this...XD I guess I'm trying to get over some inhibitions, lol. But I have a great update! I don't have an owner yet, but a friend of mine from when I was in college said she'll be like a "pet-sitter" for me until I find one ^____^ [purrs, blushing a little]
Very...we had an online play session for me last night (I would usually see her in person, but she lives 2 hours away now >_<). It was great, and I loved being able to just let things go...I've had a lot of stress lately T_T
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Sunday 15th of March 2009 05:59:23 PM
I'm terribly sorry to hear that. This should be a divine outlet for it, though ^____^ Best of luck! And feel free to invite her to the forum if she has any questions or uncertainties! :3
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"No cat out of its first fur was ever deceived by appearances, unlike human beings, who seem to enjoy it."
Thank you ^_^ And I may invite her...she's had some experience with bdsm before, but she tends to be more into sadism/masochism, which is why she doesn't want to be my full owner...
To update on that part...I just talked to her and she said she'll join ^_^ [purrs happily] Everyone gets to meet my "pet-sitter"!
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Sunday 15th of March 2009 09:56:48 PM
Thank you ^_^ And I may invite her...she's had some experience with bdsm before, but she tends to be more into sadism/masochism, which is why she doesn't want to be my full owner...
To update on that part...I just talked to her and she said she'll join ^_^ [purrs happily] Everyone gets to meet my "pet-sitter"!
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Sunday 15th of March 2009 09:56:48 PM
HUZZAH!!!
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"No cat out of its first fur was ever deceived by appearances, unlike human beings, who seem to enjoy it."
Thank you ^_^ And I may invite her...she's had some experience with bdsm before, but she tends to be more into sadism/masochism, which is why she doesn't want to be my full owner...
To update on that part...I just talked to her and she said she'll join ^_^ [purrs happily] Everyone gets to meet my "pet-sitter"!
-- Edited by Shalgrith on Sunday 15th of March 2009 09:56:48 PM
HUZZAH!!!
[blushes, purring] Thank you for sharing my excitement ^_^