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kisa-chan · Veteran Member

Apologies

kimonokitty · Senior Member

Personally, you're not putting me through anything.
I am perfectly content being an ear for you if you need it.
Although I haven't really spoken up like the others, I am always happy to help if I think I can.
You feel free to lay it out there, sis.
and if you need to lay it out in a private setting... you're welcome to PM me too. (I'm sure many of the other kitties feel the same).

Kitties are independent creatures?
No, we are a lovely little colony here. You are welcomed to come snuggle & get your ears licked anytime.

*snuggle, snuggle, licks ears & face*

Matt-Sama · Veteran Member

I agree. I don't mind listening. and As abrupt as I can be I at least I try to help.

That's part of what we're here for anyway. To listen and all learn together and share our experiences, both good and bad. I know, that I at least, am hear to learn about other couples and help when I can.

tigrenpanthera · Senior Member

aw, no problems.

i promise you, things will get better.
i hope that, if there are any problems in the future, you'll let us help however we can.

kisa-chan · Veteran Member

Thanks so much you guys. I'm glad that I'm not a burden with all of my problems, but if I do become a problem, just tell me to shut it. But regardless, I'm glad that its not a big deal if I vent. =^-^=

janet · Senior Member

*licks your ears too* Feel free to PM me with thoughts too, if you like. I can't promise to be around to PM back immediately, but I know it can help to just get one's thoughts out there. *she laughs shyly* It seems like there's a lot of blissfully happy couples on this forum--and that's great--but I know it can feel weird when you're not one of the blissfully happy ones. There's a lot of threads that are sort of relationship-centric, lots of places to talk about how your Master/Mistress makes you feel like you're on cloud 9 and not much place to talk about how your Master/Mistress/ex (in my class) makes you feel like your heart's been ripped out of your chest and squeezed with a spiked glove on a daily basis. You know. Like the what did you and your Master do for Christmas thread...Well, for Christmas, my ex moved to Texas. I am, as my profile states, not exactly in Texas. Merry Christmas to me.

*big sarcastic grin*

So...yes. Feel free to PM. *ear licks again*

Sui Juris Cattus · Guru

No worries, hon. We've all been through rough times now and then. Like I said in your affection thread, I've been where you are and beyond. I'm hear to listen. So is everyone else. Just pick someone you feel comfortable with and pour your heart out.

Saberrah · Senior Member

Never apologize for your feelings. Your feelings are important, and we're all here to help in any way possible. Be it to cheer you up, distract you, or be a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on. We DO care what happens to you.

Joli Minou · Senior Member

WE LOOOOOOOOVE YOOOOOOUUUU, you silly thing! *tackles and nuzzles to death*

This is the most randomly tightly-knit community I think I've ever been a part of, lol. And it's wonderful. ^_^

Jynx Darkitten · Senior Member

*hugs kisa tightly my tails awraping around us tightly* we will always be here and if you ant to just rant rant at me i love listening

luannablue · Veteran Member

M: everyone needs to rant now and then.

kittymoo · Veteran Member

hi kisa, im not a very vocal kitty, i sending you big hugs, i have been having problems in my relationship too, its been very helpful to me that you have been so open about your probs and feelings, im just to shy to say stuff.
so great big hugs and love to you. kittymoo.

kisa-chan · Veteran Member

*huggles everyone* I'm glad everyone cares so much, it really does mean a lot to me. And like you are all here for me, I'm here for you as well. I'm a good listener and I have and endless amount of advice to help people, it's a shame I can't help myself..

kimonokitty · Senior Member

LOL

Don't worry about that sweetie. It's the human condition that we just are unable to take our own advice.

My best friend was once dating this guy who was a total ass. The funny part is I asked one day, how would you feel if I was dating a guy that had X, Y, and Z qualities. She said, I'd tell you to drop that loser. Ahhhh.... we had a good laugh when I told her that I just described her man. And while she agreed w/ me, and told me it wasn't acceptable for her best friend to date a guy like that, she was still with him for another 3 years.

So, many of us can't take our own advice. It's because we're biased and emotional.

So don't worry, you're certainly not alone.

luannablue · Veteran Member

M: self help is overrated anyway lol

kisa-chan · Veteran Member

I guess it is =^-^=

I had a friend who was dating a loser too, she ended up in the same situation that I did a few years back. Luckly she was only raped once and got out of there, I was not so lucky, but at least I'm finally out! =^-^=

luannablue · Veteran Member

M: as i was writing that i just knew i would end-up looking like an a s s.
hmmm this is were i run into problems putting down what i mean do to my lack of spelling (witch would leave 99.9% of poeple going nuts trying to guess what the word is lol).