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heavenspearl · Member

MEW

Remamian · Senior Member

This said boyfriend *gulps* would happen to be remmy? Would it since, your avatar name is all like the same as your sl name n all...

heavenspearl · Member

I would guess the said boyfriend would be remmy. But i'm not sure on that one. but still that doesnt answer my question.

tigrenpanthera · Senior Member

aw, i wish my boy was really into this... he doesn't even really like cats, but i'm not the biggest fan of dogs.

what i learned from what HE really likes, is just to keep your mind open to anything. you might be surprised at how much you like it and how much fun it really can be, and always give it your 100%. kudos to you for wanting to try something new!

Remamian · Senior Member

Well since I know it's you know I guess I can =^.^=

YAY!!!!! a bit since you finnaly joined the forums. Only question, bleh?

But seriously, just my thing? I may be reading wrong. First off =^.^= jump in and have fun I know I am with you, we had a rocky start but if it works more to your comfort we can start off with D/s and throw in some kittenplay to get a feel. I know for me as well I have not gotten to do kittenplay so we are both trying something new. I venture for this just to be our opportunity to explore eachother on a new level mentally and comfortwise. And really allow eachothers fetishes and curiosities to come out of the woodwork. I love you darling and am glad you finaly joined!! Can't wait to see you, and hope I anwsered a few of your questions!

silversnowleopardess · Senior Member

Best advice is to start out slowly, get a feel for what you like and don't like. You don't have to jump into the "deep end" right off the bat, or even ever for that matter. I'm still in the "shallow end" of petplay, as my Master isn't as into it as I am. He's more into the D/s thing, with the occasional switching roles thing thrown in. :}

kimonokitty · Senior Member

and most importantly "talk to each other"
find what you both like, explore that, then test the waters further and further (while holding hands)
what we do as kitties may not be what you and your Master like to do
so find out what you like together

honesty, trust and communication are the only way that these sorts of relationships can survive

Remamian · Senior Member

That and you need a really cute tail. *nods* yea! OH! and ears!! Gotza have those very very important!!

heavenspearl · Member

I think this will be something that will take time I have never been sub not fully at least I have been a Mistress pretty much all my life I'm very Dom. I am more conserned on how it will affect our relationship both intimatly and emotionaly. I know many people have had relationships like this but the ones i know of never last long. I am more looking for what the pro's and con's will be if we jump into this.

Saberrah · Senior Member

Here's a shocker...I used to be a domme. I have always been interested in being submissive, but I have a huge trust issue, but I was even more interested in bdsm, so my compromise was to top. I highly enjoyed it, but for me, it felt more like a mask and no "relationship" ever lasted too long.
When I met Sir, I was (and still am) running around on SL as a kitty. We started off as friends, and really talked things over; our likes and dislikes, how we view things. It was a really big deal for me when I accepted him as my Owner...well, chose him is more the right word =^.^= I kinda gave him no choice *giggles*.
At first it started off as simple role playing for us, but quickly escalated to spilling out into real life. When we finally met in person, I KNEW Sir was the one for me, and that I would never want another as my Owner. When we finally moved in together we started off with baby steps. Even now, we're taking things slowly, and do our very best to talk about everything. Communication is the key after all. I'm slowly wanting to try more and more things, which is in my mind a very good sign.
I have been happier than I have ever been, even when times get tough. I trust no one more than I do him. He is my support, and I know if I should ever feel the urge to dom again, Sir would listen and figure something out with me. There really is a level of trust that cannot compare to any vanilla relationship I have ever had, or even with the lifestyle ones that were so short lived.
Definitely talk everything out, take things slow, and always listen to what your heart has to say.

MissAbsinthe · Senior Member

Hey I met you on sl! ^-^ *purr purr*

heavenspearl · Member

thanks for the advice. I am sure Master will be good for me at least I hope so