Well...I'm The_sequel...Le Poof (who should be posting at some point) is my kitten and girlfriend of a little over a year. Never a fight between us...except for what the Remote is called (What does everyone else call the Remote/flipper/clicker/whatever?). Anyway, we've been interested in Kittenplay for a while, and found this forum and...yeah! :)
Oh, and in answer to the question. I simply call it the remote. Or...thing/tv thing, when looking around the living room for it. My family knows what I'm talking about.