I'm trying to explain to my boyfriend how the whole kittenplay thing works.... I showed him some of Miss A's videos and he seems interested, but he wants more examples and kinda an explination and I'm not the best to give it to him cause I'm new to this.... Here's some explination of what I want:
I want a kitten master relationship most of the time, but want to be able to still do things as equals in public and during certain times of the day, but I usually am pretty submissive just in everyday life so I don't mind doing it most of the time. I want to be spoiled rotten, but still told what to do and lightly punished for my misbehavior.... I want him to love me as a person, but also as a kitty! I hope someone can help me and him figure this out, thanks you guys!
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Hmm....I think you said all just fine right there. But here's how I would summon it all up for myself =^.^= Spoiled rotten=cuddles and lots of attention! equality=doing normal everyday couple things/activities lightly punished=a little spank on the tush love=unconditional told what to do= yes, Sir!
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Kitty play, I suppose, ranges from just dressing up as a kitty to outright 'becoming' a kitty for a period of time, where both the bottom acts and thinks like a kitty so far as possible, and where the top treats the bottom as if she (or he) were a real cat. An on/off switch may be helpful. I'd suggest 'when the kitty ears are on, I'm a kitty, when they're off, I'm not'.
This can be in an overt BDSM context, a vanilla sexual context, or in an outright vanilla context - kitty curled up on his lap while he watches TV or works.