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Crystal · Senior Member

What advice would you give a pet to train a new owner?

Bestia Vinco · Senior Member

I've been trying to think of something, but so far I'm drawning a blank.

I think one of the best ways to introduce someone to this sort of thing is with stories they can read. Sadly I've never found any kitten stories and very few pet stories that I consider good. Most pet play stories I've seen start with someone being captured and then forced to become a pet against their will. hmm

Maybe others on this site can direct you to some decent petplay stories you can read him to help him get an idea of what you are looking for.

I'll keep thinking.

Good luck!

MasterMorhion · Veteran Member

Hrm, this is a tough one. Usually, in my opinion it seems to work like this. You can teach someone to be into aspects of BDSM, but if it is not already a part of who they are, the will never really be a Dom or Owner. Just as you can never truly take the Dom or Owner out of someone who BDSM is a real part of.

I would suggest analyzing him, his reactions, and his unspoken words when the subject is brought to attention. Does he seem more then just interested? Is there excitment in his eyes? Does he know how much you are really into it? At the very least if he is destined for a vanilla lifestyle, you can still help him develop a 'kink' side. Even if it is not more lifestyle oriented.

Sadly this is all the advice I can seem to give, since I'm not there and I can't anaylize the situation or the person in question :P

Chilledice · Senior Member

I think one rule that helps, is before you get into any petplay, talk about what you want out of it! If both of you want different aspects of the lifestyle, it isn't going to work, is it?

Crystal · Senior Member

What if all of that has been taken care of, what would/do you use for inspiration?

Chilledice · Senior Member

Think kinky and use google... Thats all you need once you get started, but if you are really stuck this might give you a few hints

Crystal · Senior Member

Thankies! Much much thanks!

Chilledice · Senior Member

Crystal wrote:

Thankies! Much much thanks!

No problem :) Just google "BDSM Ideas" or "petplay ideas" and I am sure you will find even more valuable information... And lots of porn

Sui Juris Cattus · Guru

There's a lot of sites out there on the Net you can refer to, just remember that some will be absolute crap and others are made of gold.
Also, as you can see once you start your searches, a large number of the petplay sites were written for the gay community. It doesn't mean they're not applicable, just written from a different perspective.
MissA has links to the better pet sites I've found so far, but here are a couple that deal with the introductory aspects to BDSM:
http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Main_Page
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/articles.htm

-- Edited by Sui Juris Cattus at 21:51, 2008-07-27

Nekogirl1988 · Senior Member

*nod nod* pretty useful information >w>